Start with a meeting point you can both find
Circular Quay can suit people arriving by ferry or train. Agree on a specific café or staffed public venue rather than “somewhere by the harbour”. A busy location is easier to find and easier to leave independently.
Keep a harbour walk optional
A walk can be a pleasant second part of a date if you both feel comfortable. Start in a public venue, choose a busy route and avoid making a secluded lookout or late-night beach your first meeting.
Plan for Sydney’s distances
Someone on the other side of the city may need more than a quick trip. Ask what area works for both of you without requesting a home address. Set a clear start and finish time, and check transport and weather before leaving.
“Harbour-side coffee or a neighbourhood café — what’s more your style?”
Use an idea only if it fits something the other person has shared. Agree on expectations, take your time and keep first meetings in public.
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